Feb 25 2008

“My HomoErotic Relationship with Jesus”

Blogger “HeIsSailing” over at De-Conversion recently had some very interesting things to say about masculinity in the church in response to one of my posts. The following is a post he wrote on a similar topic. We are reproducing this post because he is a Deconverted Christian, and brings some starkly honest perspective to the discussion. His views in no way represent the views of COAS, they are simply meant to supplement a very important discussion from a very different perspective. Whether you agree with him or not, afford him the same respect you would us.

Your lips, O my spouse, Drip as the honeycomb; Honey and milk are under your tongue; And the fragrance of your garments Is like the fragrance of Lebanon. - Song of Songs 4:11

Popular Christianity places an emphasis on believers having a Personal Relationship with Jesus. As a Christian, I proudly proclaimed that I did not follow a religion, but that I had a relationship - a personal one-on-one with the Messiah. Looking back, I have no idea how to Biblically justify the idea of a personal relationship. I am pretty certain it is nothing more than modern Christian pop culture. And on a more practical level, I don’t think Jesus wants a relationship with any of us anyway. As a Christian, I talked to Jesus for years, but never heard a word back from him. That is in no way a relationship, despite all the effort I put into it. Read more »


Jan 17 2008

Book Review: “Why Men Hate Going To Church,” by David Murrow

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This book is incredible. It is a brutally honest look at the Church’s relevancy to men, and it certainly does not pull any punches. Personally, it has put words to thoughts and gut feelings of distaste or discomfort that I have had long before I became a Christian.

As somewhat of a disclaimer and comfort to women who may be reading this, Murrow affirms the feminist movement in the last century as having been immeasurably effective in fighting for the rights of women everywhere. Every one of us deserve equal rights under the law, and courageous women have been fighting for those rights to this day. However, in many ways our culture has overcompensated, and this has had disastrous effects on the church and her relevancy to men. Read more »